This person takes an odd outlook on being in love. Having a broken heart correlates to being in pain and desperation. If this person feels more alive when they have a broken heart they must expect life to give them nothing but hard times. Do they believe that life is meant to be horrible, they are destined to be in pain? They believe love is a fantasy world, somewhat like a dream they are floating through, a Neverland of sorts. It is something that always must be destroyed eventually and one must wake up and join reality again.
I think it is sad for someone to have been pushed to the point where they can't even believe in love anymore. Though I am quite dissuaded that fairytale romanticism exists, i know there is love. What could someone have been through to feel this way?
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I think the point is that there is something so human about pain, and the way that we feel when we're in pain, lets us know we're alive, that we care, that life matters. Otherwise, we wouldn't feel anything.
Maybe it means that the person takes love for granted when they have it, that the experience of being with someone does not compare to the pain of separation, that when someone leaves, you finally realize what you had/lost.
I don't think the pain necessarily has to be viewed as a negative thing. It is almost as if it reminds the person that there is love in the world, that it does exist. So, they kind of take something positive out of the pain they feel, and they use it to heal themselves. Maybe that's why there's a bandaid over the heart.
I believe that if you love "just because...", If you give unconditional love, you will never be heartbroken, because you won't have any expectation of returning. However, If you have some expectation of returning love to you, you'll loose yourself and you will become heart broken. Maybe this person wrote about that value in his/her life.
About everything else.... I agree with you that there is love, but not in a fairy-tale way. IT IS BETTER.
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